CLOSURE.

What's interesting about it - is that it really helps you get back to . . . YOU. Sometimes, closure is all we need to progress in our lives again. I think that when we don't have it . . . we're sort of stuck in this weird place??? The place of insecurity, uncertainty or being in between. In social situations, when  people aren't direct about their emotions or which actions to take, in regards to your connection with them - you begin to allow this situation to take over your entire being: eat, sleep, and live  . . . Their being becomes your thought process; This SHOULDN'T be!

There's always a: Direct and Indirect in any sort of relationship/friendship/encounter/situation. It's once the Direct and Indirect become . . . Direct and Direct - this is when CLOSURE is complete! A weight is lifted! There's a feeling of: "There's nothing else I can do." "It is, what it is." However, the circumstances may or may not be to your liking . . . "a happy ending." Though, just knowing what you needed to hear or what has never been said or hearing what you knew was in your head all along . . . was FINALLY established! 

Through the hurt, indifference, the disagreement - you begin to understand: 

"Their loss - not mine." 

"Everything happens for a reason." 

"People come in seasons." 

"Every day is a new day!" 

"I am, who I am and that's all I have to be!" 

My personal favorite: Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not ok - it's not the end. 

But CLOSURE is the end for one particular time in our journey, in order for an even better time coming in our lives. 

And you know that old saying: If it comes back to you . . . it's supposed to be there!

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[stronger. more aware. fighting harder than before]

~dipr